Sex Appeal: Have you got it? Want to get it?

Sex appeal can be a mysterious thing. It's evident, tho, when someone has it. Sex appeal is not about bodies….sex appeal is a mindset.

The most important part of sex appeal comes from what we express from the inside. It's normal not to like your nose, or to wish your arms or legs were in better shape, but it's important to accept yourself for who and how you are, and start there. You don't have to have a petite figure or broad shoulders to be sexy. Average, ordinary people are approached much more often than extraordinary people because they aren't seen as threatening. Assess what you do have, and emphasize that. Develop a sexually confident attitude, and you will be thrilled to discover how many people out there want what you have to offer.

So…how is YOUR sex appeal? Look at the seven qualities we found rated highest on the sex appeal scale and see where you stand.

Take a look in the mirror…would you go out with you? It's important that your clothing suits your body type, flatters your shape, and reflects your personality. No need to dress like a preppy if you're a laid back mountain man. There's someone out there for everybody. But you do need to be clean and well groomed.

Men like to see women's shapes, a hint of what's underneath. Not too tight, and don't put everything on view the first time you meet him. Your sex appeal will be greater if he has to imagine what he might be missing. If you want to appeal to his dominant, protective side wear light colors. You will appear vulnerable and innocent. If you are the type of gal who likes to take charge and thrill your man, wear bold colors and materials, like a black leather skirt with a red blouse. The important part here is that your clothing compliment your body style, and be something that makes you feel good about yourself.

Women look at watches. It's an indicator of how you are doing financially, so don't buy a cheap one. They also notice shoes. You don't have to wear the most expensive shoes out there, but the ones you're wearing should be clean and in good shape. Again, you don't have to be trendy in your clothing if that's not your style, but do wear clothing that makes you feel like the cock of the walk- any woman would be lucky to have you!

Do you own sexy undergarments-and wear them often, even if nobody else can see them? Wearing silk underwear can change your whole day. Texture is important. Materials that are soft and silky feel good to both your skin and theirs. When you are wearing silk boxers under those jeans, or no panties under your favorite summer dress, you'll carry with you a secret that's bound to put a smile on your face and build your confidence!

What are you thinking about? If you want great sex appeal, don't think about work, family issues, or even your next great workout. Think about sex. Don't talk about sex, just think about how much you enjoy it. When you feel comfortable with your sexual side you emanate sex appeal without ever realizing it. Not only does that appeal to the opposite sex, it will make you feel positive, sexy and strong.

Do you smell? Hopefully you answered that with yes-in a good way! Do you have a signature cologne or perfume, one that makes you feel seductive and draws admiring comments from those you meet? If not, invest in one. Your sense of smell is one of your most alluring assets. There's a reason why sexy stars have their own perfume lines!

Still lack the confidence to carry off great sex appeal? Pick a star that you feel has great sex appeal, and emulate their qualities. Better yet, pick several, and blend them together. Even rock stars and Hollywood Hotties have muses for inspiration. Practice these qualities in private until you can carry yourself high in any situation. Become your own sexy self.

So where do you stand? Are you full of sex appeal and do you already own each of these qualities? Or, have you mastered a few and you're now ready to try the others? All it takes is a little practice. Everyone can be sexy. Why not you?

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